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ghar walon ki marzi se

Shadi sirf Parents ki pasand se ki jay q k es duniya mei aik wo he hain jo ap k liy kbi glt intkhab nai karein gy.... or bd mei usi arange marriage ko love marriage bna liya jay..... 

shaide us sa krn jo apko pasnd ho lekn gar wlo ko bi apni mrzi ma samal krn 

Us sy kren jo apko pasand karta ho kiyu k wo kabi bhi life main apko tanha ni chory ga

Sometimes parents insecure hoty hain k pta nhi hmary bachy khush reh paein ya nhi is liye b nhi maan rahay hoty r mera khiyal hai parents daikhin agar unk bachon ki pasand mein koi aisi burai nhi tu maan lein q k kuch loag kisi r sy shadi kr k b nhi khush reh paty r y sb sy bara dukh bn jata hai baad mein parents k liye r akkhir kaar hota tu wohi jo Allah ko manzoor hota hai Allah sy mangty vy b apny naseeb mein jo behter ho wohi mangna chahye q k Allah apny bandon ko khali hath nhi bhejta...

Hona tu wohi hai jo muqaddar mein mery hai..

Lkn wo mery khawb , mery khawb, mery khawb....

Herat h , is trhann ki galat btein confident sharre kesy kr lety , shadi pasand ki ho ya arrange ki , wo tow un 2 insano pe halaat pe h k wo kesy nibhaty , or jo nibhana jaanty wo har haal me nibhaty , jin he nhi nibhana ho wo kisi haal me nhi nibhaty , is post me mjhe negativity dikhai di regarding love marriage , its wrong , Quran Paak me saaf likha h hr bari mushkil me assani h , phr hum koi sahi galat ka faisla krne waly nhi hoty . or jahan divorce hoti b wahann bht masaail hoty , wo tow wohi insan janta hoga jis k sath masaail hngy , wrna shadi jesa bandhan torr k zillat or ruswai ziada milti or bura smjha jata hmari society me , ye b galat h . jeenay ka haq apni apni marzi se jeenay ka haq sbhi ko h .. Allah Talah aesy din se bachaye jo zillat o Ruswai or burai ka sabab bney .. ameen

Shadi arrange ho ya love jo partner ap k naseeb m likh diya hai bs wohi mily ga
yeh bas bahana banta hai arrange r love ka mind milty hoo to achi life guzarti ha chahy arrange ho ya love hope u understand

ye zarori nhi hai k apni psand ki shadi tot jati hai 

mera aik dost hai us ne b love marriage ki hai dono ghar walo ki marzi se 

and they are spending a very happy married life

kindly change your mind Quran pak main b ye likha hai k larka or larki aik dusray ko psand ker saktay hai ager larka or larki agree hai tu shadi ho sakti hai other wise never

so be a good person and don,t try to prove it

and change your mind  

Shadi arrange ho ya love jo partner ap k naseeb m likh diya hai bs wohi mily ga
yeh bas bahana banta hai arrange r love ka mind milty hoo to achi life guzarti ha chahy arrange ho ya love hope u understand

pata ni experience ho jae tb hi kuch kaha ja sakta hy

Asslam-u-Alaikum,

Shadi passand ke hoo yaa arrange, both scenarios are same following are genius findings.

- Passand kee shadi:-

1- Shadi say pehlay larka oor larki eak dosray koo bohat bary bary khawab dekhatay hain.... but reality is totally different.

2- Shadi say pehlay girs i'm not sure but larkay 99% jhoot boltay hain, main yeah ker doon gaa woh ker doon gaa.... oor hota kuch nahi... sirf hawa main teer martay hain larkay. G 1% larkay sachay bhe hotay hain

3- Shadi say pehlay 99% larkon kee 2 say ziyada girl friends hoti hain sab koo same story sunatay hain jo phas gai to phas gai nahi to koi oor sahi..... i'm not sure about girls lakin eak research kay mutabaq aaj kal larkiyon kay bhee 2 say ziyada boyfriends hotay hain.

4- Shadi say pehlay dono eak dosray kay liya mernay kee kasam khatay hain.... oor shadi kay baad dil main eak dosray kay mernay kee whish kertay hain.

5- Shadi say pehlay larka: meray maan baap tumhari sari batain manain gaay don't worry, Shadi kay baad sorry main apnay parents kay agay nahi bolta.

Shadi say pehlay larki: main tumharay maan baap ko apnay parents jesi izzat don gee, shadi kay baad, tum apnay maan baap koo semjha loo main nay yeah kaam kabhi apnay ghar main bhe nahi kiya oor yehan bhee nahi keron gee.

6- Shadi say pehaly larka 20 out of 24 hours larki say batain kertai hai oor shadi kay baad 4 out of 24 hours bhee nahi miltay larki koo.

wesay too list bohat lambi hai lakin yeah best practice hai.... oor isi kee wejha say talaq hoti hai.

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- Arrange Marriage:-

1-Shadi say pehlay larkay kee maan, hum to isay beti bana ker rekhain gaay bass isi kee kami hai humaray ghar main. Shadi kay baad chal uth kaam ker sara din bister torti rehti hai.

2- Shadi say pehlay larkay kee maan, humey kuch nahi chahiya bass yeah beti humain day dain.... Shadi kay baad kuch bhee nahi layi khalid haath bejh diya maan baap nay isay...

3- Shadi say pehlay larkay kee maan larki walon say jhoot bolti hai,,, mera beta to 2 lakh kamat hai rani bana ker rekhain gay aap ke beti koo... raj keray gee... shadi kay baad larka sales hain oor 15,000 salary hain.... subha jata hai oor raat ko ghar ata hai.

4- Agar sas achi ho to larkay kee sister gher aa ker apne maan koo berhkati hain... kuch nahi kerti yeah too hum too sara din apni sas kay agay pichay ghomti hain.... tension shuru...

5- Shadi kay baad kisi ka ghar barbad kernay main larkay kee sisters kaa bohat bara kamal hota hai...

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Marriage jesi bhee hoo lakin waldeen kee raza mandi hona bohat acha hai... kiun kay hum apnay maan baap koo nahi chor saktay... issliay un say ijazat lain too acha hai oor pehlay hee larki oor larkay koo khudh hee sab kuch nahi kerna chahiya, because our parents knows us better than ourselves.

Marriage jesi bhee hoo yaad rekho... compromise bohat zarori hai some time larkay koo oor some time larki ko..

keep in mind both boy and girl cannot leave their parents.... now its a duty of girl to respect the parents of boy in whatever condition and also its duty of boy to respect gilr's parents in any condition.......

oor last husband and wife has a very beautiful and this relation is not like boyfriend and girl friend but it is a unique relation which both need to understand......

Mujhey aaj bhee us dost kee baat yaad hai jab uss nay keha meri wife bohat achi hai... main nay pocha woh kesay bola... eak bar humaray pass pasay itnay kam thay sirf eak banda khana khaa sakta thaa to hum nay decide kiya kay apnay batay koo khila dain oor hum dono pora 1 din bhokay rehay oor apnay betay koo khilaya..... this is real love and this is husband and wife.......

jab aesay hoo jao gaay too sab theek hoo jaya gaa jo and there will be no separation.

Regards,

Omer

abi kafi nend alahi kal in sha Allah apka yeh comment prhty hy Sir :P 

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