Please try to share complete Ayat Everyone can deduce meaning according to their own point of view.......So plz be careful while sharing such kind of information
Complete Translation of ur first reference .....u need to read some previous Ayats too for complete understanding ....it is about heaven for those people who say Our Lord we did accept faith, then forgive us our sins and save us from the torment of the hell.
and now in Ayat 17
"Sabar krny waly oor sachy or adab waly or Rah-e-khuda may khrach krny waly or pichly pehar maafi mangny waly" it is Assaabireena wassaadqeena
about "Speak not in vain" it's about moumineen who reached to their goal ..Starting " beshak murad ko pohnchy Emaan waly --Jo apni namaz may girhgiraty hyn--- Now in ayat 3
"oor wo ksi behoda baat ki tarf iltaaf nahi krty"
About "speak kindly" its's about Bani Israeel's disobediance, they turned back from their covenant
BTW nice sharing but if we want to share something with the reference of Quran then it must be complete in meaning
nice sharing jazak Allah