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Why u guys r so desperate to pick up only bad things from a woman

Like "she is responsible for misleading the boys". "She is stubborn". "She uses foul language"...

I never came accross with any women who had used any abusive language, no matter wat. I guess mostly will agree with me k males se ziyada shayad he koi abusive language use karta ho. 

Well, I agree that ones she decides to do something, it surely is the last and the only option she has and she always makes a wise decision because she just not consider herself only... she thinks from every aspect. 

I read someone said "aurat per aqal k bajaye khawahish ghalib hoti hai". 

Firstly, it's not like that.. and 2ndly, if it is then question is... kaisi khawahish?

To educate her kids?

To provide her kids watever they wish for?

To maintain home in hubby's low income?

To build her own home by saving pannies instead of moving home to home when they grow old?

In sab main sirf or sirf aurat ne apnay liye kiya khawahish ke?

seasame street hum b ap ki baat sa mutafik houn 

thats good. right.

Thanks to all for giving such brilliant comments for ladies

meray bi kehnay ka maqsad tha kai hr bandha sahi bi nai hota

aur he bandha galt bi nai hota

in our society hum qouates to bohat code krtay hai pr kabi hum nai un ko islam ki kasoti pr perkha hi nahien hum bss lag jatey hai kai janab falah bara philoshpher hai aur bara allama hai

Quran aur hadess kai agay kisi ki baat ko ahmiat nai dainee chahiye chahey bohat bara Allama hi kiyun na ho

Aurat ki poori zindaghee qurbani ki dastaan hotee hai

is liye agr aap mera pehla comment parey to i have said

babey ki baat dil ko to lagtee hai pr theak nai hai

prr us time aap nai admit nai krna tha is liye is pr comments liye gaye

Thanks 4 participation form everyone

ڈاکٹر اشفاق احمد صاحب کا یہ تجزیہ نہیں معلوم کہ کس تجربے یا تحقیق پر مبنی ہے لیکن میری ناقص رائے میں حقیقت سے بہت دور ہے. یہ جو عورت کی ناسمجهی کا گلا کیا جاتا ہے تو درحقیقت یہ اس کی فطری مجبوری ہے. ہر شخص جانتا ہے کہ مرد لاکھ سقراط بقراط صحیح، مگر جب گهر گرہستی کی بات ہو تو اسے عورت کے آگے سر تسلیم خم کرنا ہی پڑتا ہے اور اگر عورت مرد کی ہر بات سننے لگے تو پهر وہ ان ذمہ داریوں سے کبهی عهدہ برآ نہیں ہو سکتی. اور یہ تو آپ جانتے ہی ہوں گے کہ ہر مرد اپنے آپ کو عورت کے مقابلے میں بہت برتر تصور کرتا ہے مگر یہ بهول جاتا ہے کہ جب تک اس کی زندگی میں عورت کی محبت اور اس کی دی ہوئی اور پالی ہوئی اولاد کی گهنی چهاوءں نہ ہو، یہ زندگی اس کیلیے ایک عذاب سے کم نہ ہوگی... والسلام...

shabbir ghuman

I have a request mra abe comment krna baqi hy so plz close nae kijye ga. mn ny jo kaha us ko byan krna hy abi.

pr abe kch masroofyat ki waja sy nae kr skti. thx

Great man with Great and really deep sayings..

Aurat khuloos, Sachai aur Muhabbat sey bani huwi hai aur  Aurat ka kirdar aik aisa phool hai jo saaye main bhi apni khushboo deta hai... yeh baat to sub janty hain k Aurat k baghair yeh kainaat bey rang-o-boo aur bey kaif hoti hai..jb aik Aurat  naik jazby sa is musahray mai chalti hai to wo aik dhanak k sa roop or laiti hai .

Aurat k bahut se roop hain ,beti , dost biwi,, behan , saas, nand , Maan .....

MAAN "Yeh 3 harfi lafz ( Meem+alif+noon = 3 haroof) majmoo'a hai 3 khususiyaat ka...​


Meem se .... "Muhabbat"​
Alif se .... "Anmol"​
Noon se .... "Naemat" ​
Agr behn k roop mai hai to ghar k liya rehmat hoti hai and bhai k liya
 izat .bhai k dukh sukh banti hain..agar biwi hain to shohar aur bachoun ki khidmat, muhabbat  aur wafa sa apna fareeza anjam daiti hai ..agar maa hai to sub sa piyara aur anmol rishta banti hai ..
 
This is what he said about majority of women living in our society.. Even in our families there are 8 out of 10 womens who have such Default mind which cannot be formatted or edited by any one because this is habitual or i should say a big -ve point of women in our society ..
rest of the world have different ideas about women and their mind set..

Let me sure u one thing.. Womens have more creative mind than men..
One positive thing which i get is that women hv more self belief regarding their thoughts and mind set thats why they prefer to listen the voice of their own rather than others.

+ Silent Prince

بہت اچھا نکتہ اٹھایا آپ نے

Shabbir bhai i have many reservations on your comments:


You said: "hr bandha sahi bi nai hota aur he bandha galt bi nai hota"
Apki ye bat sirf isolated cases pe apply hoti hai, not on very common discussions like this one. Quran says, "Hadayat or gumrahi saaf saaf zahir ho chuki hai". So sahi or ghalat me decisive na hona koi achi condition nahi hai. It means the person lacks desired knowledge to reach to a truthful level.


You said: "in our society hum qouates to bohat code krtay hai pr kabi hum nai un ko islam ki kasoti pr perkha hi nahien hum bss lag jatey hai kai janab falah bara philoshpher hai aur bara allama hai Quran aur hadess kai agay kisi ki baat ko ahmiat nai dainee chahiye chahey bohat bara Allama hi kiyun na ho"

Beshak Quran o hadees se barh k kuch nahi, laikin hamare musalman bhai discussion kerne pe b to fatway laga dalte hain k is ne hadees ko challenge ker dia ye to murtid ho gya. Agar kisi ko confusion hai to clarity lainy ki koshish me kia harj hai. Or ap beshak agree na karen, Ashfaq Ahmed ki writings Quran o Hadees ki roshni me hoti hain. Or jis bat pe unho ne ye para likha hai is pe hadees b mojoud hai. Han Ashfaq Ahmed ki interpretation different ho sakti hai, alfaz ka chunao, explanation style etc.

You said: "Aurat ki poori zindaghee qurbani ki dastaan hotee hai"

Allah ne "Qurbani" ko gender specific trait nahi rakha, agar ap ye sabit ker sakte hain to phr koi ayat ya hadees paish karen. I will submit to it.

یہ جو عورت کی ناسمجهی کا گلا کیا جاتا ہے تو درحقیقت یہ اس کی فطری مجبوری ہے
I 100% agree, but agar majbori ko fitrat k tor pe commonly portray kia jane lagay to majbori k name be gunah aam ho jayenge.


مرد لاکھ سقراط بقراط صحیح، مگر جب گهر گرہستی کی بات ہو تو اسے عورت کے آگے سر تسلیم خم کرنا ہی پڑتا ہے
Ye bat b durust hai laikin its either way principle. Deen ne dono ki basic responsibilities ki guidance de di hai, they are best at their specific jobs. Agar koi b dosray ki jaga lene ki koshish karega to bigar zaroor paida hoga.


ہر مرد اپنے آپ کو عورت کے مقابلے میں بہت برتر تصور کرتا ہے
Is bartari ko ghalat istamal kerna or gharoor kerna ghatia harkat hai laikin ye bartari b usko Islam ne di hai us ne khud nahi li ye bartari. Quran says: "Or Mardon ko aurton pe qayem kia gya hai"


Shabbir bhai, me kisi shaqs pe b blind faith ka qael nahi, Ashfaq Ahmed mere chahoo k puttar b nahi but Alhamdolillah, life me research ki adat rahi hai. Khawateen se mazrat k sath kahonga k agar mene jo kuch Aurat se mutaliq Quran o Ahadees k references parhay hain agar wo me kabi quote ker don to larkio ki bohat dilazari hogi (Jo k nahi honi chahiye cos its not my say its Islam). Me fisaad k bohat sakht khilaf hon, or is moderate dour me agar mene aisi ahadees mention ker di to larkia to kia larkay b Hadees ko challenge kerne ki khuwahish karenge. So its better only talk when there is real need to talk.

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